Posts tagged burlesque
The Benefits of Narcissism
Aug 11th
A quick, stream of consciousness on self-love:

via `Vorfas
Okay, so let’s not all be narcissists, but really, we should love ourselves, naughtily and otherwise.
When you undress for the night, how do you see your body? I’m not a mainstream media body type or size, but most nights, I think “Damn, I love my sexy self!”
Does anyone else get undressed for bed and just absolutely love how their body looks without clothes on? I kind of feel like I was meant to live a naked life. It’s one of the reasons burlesque is so appealing to me I guess!
It’s cheesy, but in a world where advertising and most of our outside influences tell us we’re not good enough, a little narcissism about superficial things like how you look, go a long way.
Sure there are things I want to change physically, I think we all want to live more active lives. But even if I don’t lose a pound and only gain strength and stamina, I’ll be happy. Because happy is an in-the-moment place, not somewhere in the future.
It took me a long time to get to this point. In high school I actively shunned any notion of feminity and body image. Sure I went to prom and wore a dress, but every other day was spent in an army jacket with boy-cut short hair. Of course, if you see me now I rarely wear pants. dresses and skirts make up almost all my wardrobe, and I revel in putting together costumes and cute outfits for evenings. All this to say that I used to think that image didn’t matter. It’s about what’s on the inside right? But if you’re constantly hiding who you are on the inside by rejecting people and shutting others out, how is anyone going to know? You don’t have to play by their rules.
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Introducing the Delinquent Debutantes!
Mar 15th
Hello ladies and lads,
So I’ve been quiet on here but definitely not so outside the digital world. I’ve been wanting to engage more in burlesque community in Nashville since I moved here, and now the wonderful Bianca 13, former Chicago ballet artist and fantastic burlesque performer, and I are opening a burlesque finishing school, the Delinquent Debutantes! We will offer classes ranging from pin up poses, to choreography to ballet and yoga for burlesque as well as bachelorette parties and workshops in tassel twirling and costuming. I am beyond excited to have a one-stop for all things burlesque in Nashville, and to continue to foster and grow the community here.
If you’re in Nashville, please come out to our opening gala on March 27th. There’ll be a burlesque bazaar and performances by our talented instructors (including moi!). 8pm at 1406 McGavock Pike, BYOB.
Follow us on Twitter @DelinquentDebs! We’ll post specials and follower only deals coming soon!
Love and pasties,
Headmistress Freya
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How do I get a burlesque gig?
Feb 8th
Just got back from a whirlwind of boobs and glitter from the Dallas Burlesque Festival. Great show, great girls, and an amazing audience. I feel lucky and so pleased to have shared the stage with everyone who performed.
I received an email over the weekend from a reader asking about shows. My troupe, Music City Burlesque, gets quite a few similar emails from girls looking to do burlesque, so I thought I’d share with everyone. She writes:
“I’m a burlesque dancer looking for work and I’d love some advice on getting gigs. Thanks girl!” -Katie
First off, getting gigs is great, but it won’t really count as “work.” Although most shows pay, they only pay enough to maybe cover your costume materials expenses, not counting the hours of choreographing, practicing, and the time to actually craft your costume. There are a precious few dancers who make a living off burlesque, and most of those also either teach classes, in the case of Michelle L’Amour and Indigo Blue or brand themselves through books and makeup, like Dita Von Teese. The rest of us do burlesque for various reasons, but money isn’t one of them. Just an aside, since I get a lot of questions about how much we make dancing.
I’m assuming you’re a new dancer and don’t have any contacts in the business. If you’re a new dancer, it’s kind of hard to get out there because troupes and venues want to know what you’ve done. A great way to get your first show is to take classes and perform in a student showcase. That’s how I got my start in burlesque, and I learned a lot from the other girls in my class as well as my teachers. Of course, you may not be in an area where that’s available. If that’s the case, you need to make an audition video, with your full makeup and finished routine, and finished costume. It doesn’t matter if it’s in your living room and the lighting quality sucks, this is to show prospective people that you’re serious and have put in the time to finish a routine. Photos are always a plus even if it’s just a myspace of facebook page.
Are you in an area with lots of burlesque or not so much? Do a little research to see what kind of burlesque or sideshow is happening in your area. If you’re lucky enough to be in a mecca of burlesque, start going to lots of shows. Dress up and talk to performers afterward if they’re open to it. Don’t pitch yourself, just mention that you liked their performance and see if they have a website or facebook. If you can network and meet people beforehand, you’ll stand out when you send them your pitch.
If you live in an area with no burlesque, don’t despair! Burlesque is constantly growing and becoming more mainstream. Keep looking, and start a meetup group for those interested in burlesque. If you can find a venue, there are plenty of touring acts that you could help bring to town. If you live within driving distance of a burlesque troupe, make the trip to see one of their shows, and see if they’d be interested in coming to do a show near you.
Once you’ve made contact with a troupe, it’s time to send them your pitch. Mention you’ve seen their show and talked to performer X. Ask if they ever host guest performers and list all your finished routines and the accompanying music. Include links to your photos and the aforementioned video. Be courteous and willing to do anything. They may ask you to work the merchandise booth at a show or to stage kitten (picking up discarded performer clothing onstage) before asking you to perform.
Booking non-burlesque shows, like opening for a band, are a little trickier. You could contact a specific venue directly or a specific band directly giving the same information you would give to a troupe. Do your research and make sure you’re pitching appropriately. In other words don’t pitch a classic fan dance to a pop-punk band.
Keep in mind that certain states have laws about nudity in bars. In Nashville, if we perform anywhere that serves alcohol, we must wear a quarter bra (covering under boob and side boob) and full panties. If you violate that law and someone reports it, the venue, not you, gets fined. If a venue has been burned by performers not obeying the law, they may never let burlesque be performed there again, so don’t take it to heart if a venue flat out refuses you because you do burlesque.
Be persistent. Keep watching shows and even youtube videos to better yourself and be more knowledgeable about the burlesque scene and how it’s evolving. Get involved however you can and always be nice to everyone. This is a really small world and if you’re rude or a diva, it’ll be hard to get more gigs.
Hope that helps my would be ecdysiasts!
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Snow Shoot
Feb 1st

It snowed in Nashville. Let me stress, in the past 20 or so years people I know have lived here, it has never snowed as much as it did this weekend. I got stir crazy the second day, and suggested a photoshoot in the snow in lingerie and high heels would be fun. Lucky for me, Chad McClarnon, a local photographer, saw my tweet and was in the same mood. Yay for Twitter! Chilly, yes, but also steamy.
Here are a few of the goods. All photos Chad McClarnon:

gloves: vintage
sheer kimono: bought at boutique in South Africa
skivvies: Gilligan and O’Malley for Target
faux fur coat: vintage
dress: TJ Maxx
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Shameless Self Exposure
Jan 20th
Hello lovelies!
I have a ton of burlesque shows coming up, and thought I’d let you all know the whens and wheres in case you wanted to come see me shimmy

Feb 5th and 6th I will be performing at the Dallas Burlesque Festival! This is my first fest and I’m so thrilled to be included among a great group of performers.
Feb 13th I’ll be joining forces with Nashville’s original burlesque troupe, Panty Raid!, in their Valentines Day extravaganza at Exit/In.
Feb 20th is Burlesque for Arts’ Sake featuring me and some of my Music City Burlesque ladies at Studio 1406 in East Nashville.
Feb 21st I’ll be modeling for Dr. Sketchy’s Anti-Art School Nashville. It’s a valentine’s theme, and I’ve got some fun props and dance up my velvet gloves.
March 6th I’ll be in Franklin, TN performing in The Pond’s weekly variety show.
Then on March 26th, Music City Burlesque is throwing our 2nd Annual Spring Break Show at the historic Belcourt Theatre.
I currently working out more travel plans for burlesque-ing, with a trip to Chicago in the future, and likely a Seattle jaunt as well. If you’re interested in booking me or know of any awesome shows I should go to or be in, let me know!
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Becoming Burlesque: Details
Jul 15th

via Miss Lindsay
This is the first article in a new series I’m calling: Becoming Burlesque, all about the sass and sexy of burlesque. Whether you’re on stage, in the bedroom or the boardroom, knowing you have a little secret is a great way to boost your confidence and have a little fun. We’ll talk about style, inspiration and moves. If you’re a dancer or admirer (you know who you are!) and would like to contribute, please let me know! I’d love to have as many takes on this art form as I can.
We’ll get into the history and reasons why showing off your goods in public is a fantastic idea later, but for this dreary hump day, let’s just get into some sexy looks for the rest of your week.
High Heels: Last year one of my new year’s resolutions was to wear more heels. At all of 5′3″ I’m the girl struggling to reach the top shelf and looking childish in dresses with flats. What I learned on my year long odyssey of shoes is first, I awakened a latent shoe fetishist. Second, that once I invested in some great pumps, I loved wearing heels. Cheap heels will inevitably hurt your feet unless you have magic feet invulnerable to cheap materials. Invest in good shoes and you’ll feel and look like a million bucks. If you’re not a lover of heels, try some kitten heel shoes that have just a little lift and still look vintage secretary sexy.
Pasties: Pasties are one of the most quintessential things about burlesque for me. You could be performing a death metal rendition dressed in the most hardcore punk clothes, but take it off, and you’ve likely got some sort of shiny on those nips. It’s amazing and wonderful. There are several amazing designers on Etsy that range from outrageous and feathered, to simple sequined hearts. Get a pair and just wear them with a sheer or white shirt dancing, or just peeking out of a fantastic bra for a hint of glimmer and glitter. Use a good wig tape or spirit gum to apply.
Naughty Underdrawers: So much of the time, our sexy lingerie is put away in drawers for special occasions. I say down with that! What’s wrong with wearing crotchless panties on a Monday? Spice things up a bit. Wear nothing but high heels and your best lingerie set to vacuum on your day off. Or slide on a negligee or slip under your business suit. Never underestimate the power of a great bra, whether it’s a push-up, lacy nothing, or covered in sequins. The point isn’t to be slutty, but to make you feel sexy and confident. No one has to know why
Stockings: Stockings are sort of an antiquated fashion, so they immediate bring pin-ups to mind for me. A great pair of thigh highs can transform any outfit into a burlesque routine waiting to happen. Find a good garter belt (vintage or Target and Victoria’s Secret have decent ones), and go to town. If the tops are too tight, as they tend to be for full thigh-ed ladies like myself, cut off the top elastic. You’ll feel more comfortable, and your garter belt will still keep them up. I prefer nude fishnets or nude stockings with the black line up the back, but play around and see what you like.
Hairdo: Your hairdo can really set off an otherwise contemporary outfit to vintage bombshell. Try victory rolls or simple poufs. If you’re not too hair-handy, get some gorgeous fascinators off Etsy, and just clip them in. There are several Youtube tutorials for vintage hair, or this Livejournal group also has plenty of inspiration.
Details: Burlesque is all about careful details. Paint your nails. Wear falsies. Give yourself a beauty mark. Make sure when you walk with that sass it is in every fiber of your being, the long legs, sleek outline, and playful eyes. It’s about being a total package, even if you’re in a t-shirt and jeans.
Next on Becoming Burlesque, how to perfect The Shimmy.
For more tips and tricks on burlesque fashion, check out these lovely ladies’ posts:
- Bringing Back Burlesque by Ashe
- Birdie discusses Appropriate Attire when attending a burlesque show
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